Panduan untuk kehidupan lebih baik ~ Randy Pausch

Saya ingin berkongsi tips berguna dan sangat praktikal jika diamalkan bagi menjalani kehidupan seharian kita yang penuh dengan ujian dan dugaan. Tips ini ditulis oleh Randy Pausch, seorang pensyarah Sains Komputer di Mellon University, sebelum ia meninggal dunia pada usia 47 tahun akibat kanser pankreas pada tahun 2008. Nota “Panduan untuk hidup lebih baik” (Guide to a better life) ini ditulisnya untuk diamalkan oleh isterinya yang bernama Jai dan anak-anaknya yang bernama Dylan, Logan, dan Chloe. Nota ini akhirnya menjadi best seller pada tahun 2007.

Mari kita ikuti panduan dan tips sejagat yang beliau tinggalkan, bukan saja untuk familinya tetapi untuk kita semua. Semoga bermanfaat jika dihayati dan diamalkan….

POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

Personality:

1. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don’t have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don’t over do; keep your limits
4. Don’t take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Community:

15. Call your family often
16. Each day give something good to others
17. Forgive everyone for everything
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day
20. What other people think of you is none of your business
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. GOD heals everything
24. Do the right things
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
27. The best is yet to come
28. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy.

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